Rules for being an awesome woman…

1 – There’s no excuse for bad hygiene.

2 – Be the woman a man needs, not the woman who needs a man.

3 – Always accept a compliment.

4 – If he leaves or gives up on you, remember, it’s his lost. Not yours.

5 – If he doesn’t respect you, then you deserve better.

6 – You’re beautiful and no one has the rights to tell you you’re not.

7 – Don’t fall for a guy who isn’t willing to catch you.

8 – Embrace your flaws and be true to who you really are.

9 – Never lose faith in finding your perfect someone.

10 – Look like a butterfly, sting like a bee.

11 – Cover up. Being a mystery is more sexy than showing every inch of yourself off.

12 – Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.

13 – The little black dress is a classic for a reason.

14 – A real lady holds her head high, but never her nose.

15 – Never underestimate the power of a warm, sincere greeting.

16 – For the love of decency, never chew with your mouth open.

17 – A lady knows her limits no matter what, don’t embarrass yourself by exceeding them.

18 – Never make him carry your purse unless you don’t want him around for long.

19 – If you expect him to give you girl time, expect to give him guy time.

20 – A subtle, yet noticeable lip bite possesses exceptional power. Use with caution.

21 – True beauty comes from within.

22 – Confidence is sexy.

23 – Never let a man define you. Be amazing on your own.

24 – You might feel worthless to one person, but you’re priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value. -Luan Legacy.

25 – Don’t get your hopes up, don’t let your guard down.

26 – If you’re not worth the trouble then he’s not the worth the time.

27 – Be refined, polite and well-spoken.

28 – Act like a lady, think like a man.

29 – Be classy & fabulous always.

30 – Always be yourself around him. If he can’t accept you for your quirks, then he’s not worth it.

31 – Remember; if he wants to, he will.

32 – Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady.

33 – If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best. Marilyn Monroe

34 – Never regret something that once made you smile.

35 – Be brave, be bold and the guy will be yours.

36 – A true lady doesn’t start fights, but sure knows how to finish them.

37 – Make him chase you.

38 – Do not stereotype men; they’re definitely not all the same.

39 – Always classy. Never trashy. Just a little nasty.

40 – Just as men shouldn’t play with women’s heart, women shouldn’t play with men’s heart as well.

41 – If you don’t stand up for yourself, no one will.

42 – Arch your spine, and shoulders back. This is a good posture. You are not confident until you decide to be.

43 – Never underestimate the power of a name. Use them. Be remembered.

44 – You can never be beautiful unless you’re happy.

45 – Chew like you have a secret.

46 – Always have a comeback.

47 – Maintain your mystery; men love a good hunt.

48 – One can never be too classy.

49 – If he does not have a chance, tell him. Don’t lead him on and make him think that he has a chance when he does not.

50 – To the world you may just be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

51 – Don’t wait for Prince Charming to come and save you. Remember, being independent is more attractive to men.

52 – If you love him, tell him. Chances are, he’ll feel the same about you.

53 – Flirt with him enough to show your interest. But tease him enough to make him chase you.

54 – You will never find the right guy if you are looking for the wrong reasons.

55 – Never turn around to look back. Without doubt, he’s still looking at you.

56 – Skirts should be like tumblr posts; long enough to cover the subject but short enough to keep things interesting.

57 – No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won’t make you cry.

58 – Beauty gets the attention, but personality gets the heart.

59 – Like the song says…you’re beautiful in every single way.

60 – A sincere smile is a lady’s most beautiful feature.

61 – It’s better to be hated for who you are than be loved for someone you’re not.

62 – “Anorexia is a disease. Not a fashion statement.” -Sophia Bush

63 – Modesty isn’t always overrated. A little mystery never hurt anyone.

64 – Don’t just expect to find love, wait and it will come.

65 – A guy doesn’t ever have to be more than a friend, sometimes things are better that way.

66 – Ladies should never hit a man either. Violence isn’t classy.

67 – You shouldn’t need to raise your voice. If you’re dealing with a person who won’t listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren’t worth dealing with.

68 – Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real.

69 – A man willing to do anything just to place a smile on your face is one worth keeping.

70 – Be happy. Someone could be falling for your smile.

71 – Never make a man a priority in your life if you are just an option in his.

72 – A lady should be able to make a man smile with her clothes on.

73 – Talk loud enough so people can hear you, but soft enough so he’ll have to lean in closer.

74 – Being different doesn’t mean you’re uncanny. You’re just a limited edition.

75 – A man forgets, but never forgives. But a lady, forgives. But never forgets.

76 – “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different” -Coco Chanel

77 – “Always dress like you’re going to see your worst enemy.” -Kimora Lee Simmons

78 – Leave the rumor-spreading and trash talking to Gossip Girl.

79 – Being fashionably late is not cool.

80 – Never show you’re intimidated, it shows weakness.

81 – Remember; the treasure doesn’t do the hunting.

82 – Make a man fall for your intelligence, not for your body and your double Ds.

83 – Always act like you are wearing an invisible crown.

84 – Respect from others come from self-respect.

85 – Drama queens are NOT attractive.

86 – Never try to change a man, you wouldn’t want him to attempt to do the same to you.

87 – Always be considerate of another person’s feelings.

88 – Never lie.

89 – Attempt to learn something new every day.

90 – Always, always remember the Golden Rule.

91 – Take responsibility for your actions every second of the day.

92 – Finish what you start.  Every time.

93 – A dirty house is disgusting.

94 – Always stick to your morals and convictions.

95 – Find the one thing that makes your soul sing and always carry it with you.

96 – Never, ever fake it.

97 – Always say “thank you”.

98 – Be considerate of other people’s time, don’t waste yours or theirs.

99 – Cussing is not pretty.

100 – Focus on the positive, don’t dwell on what you can’t control or change.

101 – Action causes reaction.  Think before acting.

I was amazed at how fast these “rules” came to mind.  It might be because this is how I try to live my live every day.   Even if you follow just a dozen or so of these, you’re way ahead of the game.  The most important one I can really think of it to be aware of your behavior at all times.  You are in control and you have a choice in all you do.  Make a bad decision and you have no one else to blame but yourself.

If you have a favorite rule that isn’t included in this list, please send it to me.  I don’t know about you but I can always use the advice!

Be happy…


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7 Responses to Rules for being an awesome woman…

  1. Tiffany says:

    Absolutely loving it! A beautiful reminder. Thank you.


  2. Vikki says:

    Absolutely love, live, and adore this list!!! I’ve always said, once women know the rules of being a lady, classiness comes naturally.
    My blog, Classyfieds, is much like yours! You ought to check it out!


  3. Thanks a lot for ur sweet tips and rules ,, wallah it’s very true ^_^
    May Allah bless u ♥


  4. Stella Moon says:

    Needed this today! 🙂


    • Steffanie says:

      I understand Stella! I needed the lift when I wrote it. I look at it several times a week to remind myself that I AM an awesome woman. Chances are if we don’t tell ourself that, no one else will. Sounds kinda cynical but that’s how it feels at times! Thanks for commenting… made my day for sure!


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