Trying to understand love is like trying to understand life as we know it, and is something that we will probably never truly all the way understand. Love doesn’t come with an owner’s manual. We are on our own to navigate the path to happiness. What I have learned from my own personal relationships and from others who have been married or with the same person for at least ten years is that even though you may love your significant other, there are going to be differences in opinion, and arguments sometimes, issues will arise that can take some time to resolve, there are going to be places you want to go that they might not want to and vice-versa, but at the end of the day there should be no one else you would rather be in bed with than your significant other. It seems to me that these days, it’s too easy for people to give up. Like committed relationships are disposable. I’m not advocating staying in a relationship that makes you or your partner unhappy and has issues that can’t be resolved. I’m of the opinion that while there is love, there are solutions.
Finding a love like this is all about finding a balance between two people. A give and take that sometimes isn’t always equal. To find someone like this they must share or be devoted to seeing you accomplish your dreams, they should be someone you can confide in and be able to tell anything to, and they should be someone willing to overcome any obstacle in your life while you should also be willing to do the same. This person should have your back at all times. When you do find that someone, hold on and hold tight. Sometimes it will be easy, sometimes it will be hard, sometimes it will be the most joyous thing in the world and sometimes it will break your heart. But in the end, it will always be worth it.
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- How to Make a Relationship Last (socyberty.com)